go against the grain

US /ɡoʊ əˈɡɛnst ðə ɡreɪn/
UK /ɡoʊ əˈɡɛnst ðə ɡreɪn/
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يخالف الطبيعة, يخالف المألوف, يذهب ضد التيار

to be contrary to one's natural inclination or to generally accepted norms or practices

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It really goes against the grain for him to ask for help, as he's always been so independent.
إنه حقًا يخالف طبيعته أن يطلب المساعدة، فهو دائمًا ما كان مستقلاً جدًا.
Her decision to pursue art went against the grain of her family's expectations for her to become a doctor.
قرارها بمتابعة الفن خالف توقعات عائلتها بأن تصبح طبيبة.