behind someone's back
US /bɪˈhaɪnd ˈsʌm.wʌnz bæk/
UK /bɪˈhaɪnd ˈsʌm.wʌnz bæk/

1.
pelas costas de alguém, sem o conhecimento de alguém
without someone's knowledge or without telling them
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I can't believe she talked about me behind my back.
Não acredito que ela falou de mim pelas minhas costas.
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They made the decision behind his back.
Eles tomaram a decisão pelas costas dele.