rub someone the wrong way
US /rʌb ˈsʌm.wʌn ðə rɔŋ weɪ/
UK /rʌb ˈsʌm.wʌn ðə rɔŋ weɪ/

1.
menyakitkan hati seseorang, mengganggu seseorang
to annoy or irritate someone, often unintentionally, by one's actions or words
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His constant complaining really rubbed me the wrong way.
Rungutan berterusannya benar-benar membuat saya tidak senang.
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Be careful what you say; you don't want to rub her the wrong way.
Berhati-hati dengan apa yang anda katakan; anda tidak mahu menyakitkan hatinya.