behind someone's back
US /bɪˈhaɪnd ˈsʌm.wʌnz bæk/
UK /bɪˈhaɪnd ˈsʌm.wʌnz bæk/

1.
背着某人, 在某人背后
without someone's knowledge or without telling them
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I can't believe she talked about me behind my back.
我不敢相信她在我背后议论我。
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They made the decision behind his back.
他们背着他做了这个决定。