call the shots/ tune

US /kɔːl ðə ʃɑːts/tuːn/
UK /kɔːl ðə ʃɑːts/tuːn/
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de dienst uitmaken, de lakens uitdelen, de koers bepalen

to be in charge and tell people what to do

:
In this company, the CEO really calls the shots.
In dit bedrijf bepaalt de CEO echt de koers.
She's the one who calls the tune in their relationship.
Zij is degene die de dienst uitmaakt in hun relatie.