wear the pants
US /wer ðə pænts/
UK /wer ðə pænts/

1.
mengawal, membuat keputusan
to be the person in a relationship who makes the decisions and is in control
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In their marriage, it's clear that she wears the pants.
Dalam perkahwinan mereka, jelas bahawa dia yang mengawal.
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He likes to think he wears the pants, but his wife actually makes all the important decisions.
Dia suka berfikir dia yang mengawal, tetapi isterinya sebenarnya membuat semua keputusan penting.