rub someone the wrong way
US /rʌb ˈsʌm.wʌn ðə rɔŋ weɪ/
UK /rʌb ˈsʌm.wʌn ðə rɔŋ weɪ/

1.
membuat seseorang kesal, mengganggu seseorang
to annoy or irritate someone, often unintentionally, by one's actions or words
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His constant complaining really rubbed me the wrong way.
Keluhannya yang terus-menerus benar-benar membuat saya kesal.
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Be careful what you say; you don't want to rub her the wrong way.
Hati-hati dengan apa yang kamu katakan; kamu tidak ingin membuatnya kesal.