demoralizing

US /dɪˈmɔːr.ə.laɪ.zɪŋ/
UK /dɪˈmɔːr.ə.laɪ.zɪŋ/
1.

làm mất tinh thần

making you lose confidence, enthusiasm, and hope:

:
Being out of work for a long time is very demoralizing.