Meaning of the word "go against the grain" in English

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go against the grain

US /ɡoʊ əˈɡɛnst ðə ɡreɪn/
UK /ɡoʊ əˈɡɛnst ðə ɡreɪn/
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Idiom

1.

to be contrary to one's natural inclination or to generally accepted norms or practices

Example:
It really goes against the grain for him to ask for help, as he's always been so independent.
Her decision to pursue art went against the grain of her family's expectations for her to become a doctor.
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