whittle away
US /ˈwɪt.əl əˈweɪ/
UK /ˈwɪt.əl əˈweɪ/

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逐渐削弱, 逐渐减少
to reduce something in size, amount, or importance gradually
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The constant criticism began to whittle away at her confidence.
持续的批评开始消磨她的信心。
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They are trying to whittle away at our rights.
他们正试图削弱我们的权利。