harden your heart
US /ˈhɑːr.dən jʊər hɑːrt/
UK /ˈhɑːr.dən jʊər hɑːrt/

1.
铁石心肠, 心肠变硬
to become less sympathetic or emotionally unresponsive to others' suffering or pleas
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She tried to harden her heart to his pleas, but she couldn't.
她试图对他的恳求铁石心肠,但她做不到。
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You must harden your heart if you want to survive in this business.
如果你想在这个行业生存,你必须铁石心肠。