a stick to beat someone with

US /ə stɪk tə biːt ˈsʌm.wʌn wɪθ/
UK /ə stɪk tə biːt ˈsʌm.wʌn wɪθ/
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攻击某人的把柄, 批评的借口

a piece of information or an argument that can be used to criticize or harm someone

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His past mistakes became a stick to beat him with during the election campaign.
他过去的错误成了竞选期间攻击他的把柄
Don't give them a stick to beat you with by admitting your weaknesses.
不要通过承认自己的弱点给他们攻击你的把柄