Things have come to a pretty pass when children are telling their parents what to do.

当孩子们告诉父母该怎么做时，事情已经到了糟糕的地步。

It's come to a pretty pass when you can't even trust your own friends.

当你甚至不能相信自己的朋友时，事情已经到了糟糕的地步。