pick and choose

US /pɪk ənd tʃuːz/
UK /pɪk ənd tʃuːz/
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挑三揀四, 精挑細選

to select only the best or most desirable options from a range of possibilities

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You can't just pick and choose which rules to follow.
你不能只挑三揀四地選擇要遵守的規則。
When it comes to jobs, she likes to pick and choose.
談到工作,她喜歡挑三揀四