keep a civil tongue in your head
US /kiːp ə ˈsɪv.əl tʌŋ ɪn jʊər hɛd/
UK /kiːp ə ˈsɪv.əl tʌŋ ɪn jʊər hɛd/

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言語得體, 說話客氣
to speak politely and avoid rude or offensive language
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You need to keep a civil tongue in your head when talking to your elders.
和長輩說話時,你必須言語得體。
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Even when angry, try to keep a civil tongue in your head.
即使生氣,也要努力言語得體。