rub someone the wrong way
US /rʌb ˈsʌm.wʌn ðə rɔŋ weɪ/
UK /rʌb ˈsʌm.wʌn ðə rɔŋ weɪ/

1.
irritar alguém, chatear alguém
to annoy or irritate someone, often unintentionally, by one's actions or words
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His constant complaining really rubbed me the wrong way.
As suas constantes reclamações realmente me irritaram.
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Be careful what you say; you don't want to rub her the wrong way.
Tenha cuidado com o que diz; você não quer irritá-la.