mistress

US /ˈmɪs.trəs/
UK /ˈmɪs.trəs/
1.

amante

a woman in a position of authority or control.

:
she is always mistress of the situation, coolly self-possessed
2.

amante

a woman (other than the man's wife) having a sexual relationship with a married man.

:
Elsie knew her husband had a mistress tucked away somewhere