toughen up
US /ˈtʌf.ən ʌp/
UK /ˈtʌf.ən ʌp/

1.
to become or make someone stronger, more resilient, or less sensitive to difficulties or criticism
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You need to toughen up if you want to succeed in this competitive industry.
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The coach told the team to toughen up and not let the loss affect them.