manipulative
US /məˈnɪp.jə.lə.t̬ɪv/
UK /məˈnɪp.jə.lə.t̬ɪv/

1.
exercising unscrupulous control or influence over others
:
•
She felt he was being very manipulative, trying to get her to do what he wanted.
•
His manipulative tactics alienated his friends.