manipulative

US /məˈnɪp.jə.lə.t̬ɪv/
UK /məˈnɪp.jə.lə.t̬ɪv/
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1.

exercising unscrupulous control or influence over others

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She felt he was being very manipulative, trying to get her to do what he wanted.
His manipulative tactics alienated his friends.