know which side your bread is buttered on
US /noʊ wɪtʃ saɪd jʊər brɛd ɪz ˈbʌtərd ɑn/
UK /noʊ wɪtʃ saɪd jʊər brɛd ɪz ˈbʌtərd ɑn/

1.
to be aware of where your advantages or benefits come from and to act in a way that maintains them
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He always helps his boss because he knows which side his bread is buttered on.
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You need to know which side your bread is buttered on if you want to succeed in this company.