cry over spilled milk
US /kraɪ ˈoʊvər spɪld mɪlk/
UK /kraɪ ˈoʊvər spɪld mɪlk/

1.
to be unhappy about something that cannot be changed
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It's no use crying over spilled milk; we just need to find a solution now.
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She was still crying over spilled milk from last week's mistake.