at the end of the day
US /æt ðə ɛnd əv ðə deɪ/
UK /æt ðə ɛnd əv ðə deɪ/

1.
when everything is considered; ultimately
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We can discuss this all we want, but at the end of the day, it's your decision.
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He made a lot of mistakes, but at the end of the day, he's still a good person.